The Hate Game - Book Review

The Hate Game

Author: Gary Trew
Genre: Non Fiction - Memoir
Publisher: Gary Trew
Date Published: August 8, 2024
ISBN-10:
ISBN-13: 9781738245437


GoodReads Rating:
4.86

Book Review of :  The Hate Game



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"The Hate Game" is a memoir by Gary Trew that recounts his early experiences at the Knoll School in Hove, Sussex, England, starting in 1972. As a young boy, Trew offers an unflinching portrayal of the harsh realities of school bullying and the courage it takes to endure it. His narrative captures the day-to-day challenges, vividly illustrating a time when the school environment was rife with tension and intimidation. Although the Knoll School for Boys was considered an elite institution, Trew's evocative descriptions reveal students' emotional and psychological struggles, highlighting the resilience needed to survive in such a hostile setting.

Gary recounts his years in school with vivid detail. He tells of the horrible games (Holocaust games) that the unfortunate students were forced to participate in by the stronger ones. It was a disturbing role-play game where they had to choose between being a Jew or a Nazi. This cruel game involved not only beatings and verbal abuse but also the humiliating practice of marking foreheads with the labels "Jew" or "Nazi." Shockingly, these activities were allowed by the complacent school staff. Students lived in constant fear, even avoiding the bathrooms to escape the dreaded "swirly"—a degrading act where a victim's head is forcibly submerged in a toilet bowl. Sometimes, the water was deliberately left filthy, adding an extra layer of humiliation. Sadly, hazing of this nature still exists today in various forms.

Gary also relates how the physical education teachers routinely humiliated boys who didn't fit the athletic mold or were overweight, adding to the atmosphere of intimidation. The teachers were as abusive as the gangs of bullies, creating a pervasive culture of fear and ridicule at Knoll School.

On a lighter note, Gary shares a comical story about his mother, a formidable woman who refused to tolerate abuse. In one memorable incident, she scared the living daylights out of a leather-clad biker who had dared to toss a firecracker at her house, showing her fearless spirit. Another interesting tale involves Gary cleverly winning money from a boastful adversary in a chess match, showcasing his cunning and strategic mind. His writing paints these scenes so vividly that you can easily visualize the events unfolding in your mind's eye.

Trew's story is an important reminder of the long-lasting impact of bullying and how it can shape a person's life. His honest and raw account sheds light on a dark aspect of school culture that many may not be aware of or choose to ignore. Bullying is not a Knoll School or an England thing; it is a problem worldwide. Aside from its importance as a social commentary, "The Hate Game" is an engaging and moving memoir. Trew's writing style draws readers in. His character development is also incredibly effective, as he portrays the complex and multifaceted nature of both bullies and victims. This adds depth to the story and challenges readers to look beyond stereotypes.

Overall, "The Hate Game" is a powerful and thought-provoking read that addresses important bullying issues while delivering an engaging and well-crafted narrative. It serves as a reminder to be more empathetic and understanding towards others and to work toward creating a safe and inclusive environment for everyone. Trew's bravery in sharing his story will undoubtedly inspire others to speak up against bullying and work towards creating a kinder world.


Reviewed by: David

About Gary Trew


Even though Gary has lived in Canada for over twenty years, his close friends and work colleagues still call him "that funny British guy" due to his accent and quick-witted sense of humor. He has successfully navigated careers in the police, the ministry, and in social work. His work as an investigator with abused and neglected children and youth has taught him the value of laughter in the face of life's challenges. Gary holds degrees in chemistry & biochemistry, and social work. He has a deep affection for Marmite, sunshine, spicy food, and Cadbury's chocolate. Additionally, he is a dedicated fan of the Brighton & Hove Albion football club and Vancouver Canucks.




Visit https://www.garytrew.net for more information on Gary Trew


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